My experience is that it depends more on what disease you have. When I have to be hospitalized for my Lyme, fibromialgia, I've indeed had the experience that much is questioned. However, when I am admitted for ulcerative colitis, I am approached as it should be.
I know there have been many studies based on gender..treatments ..pain relief and tests ordered in the ER when presenting with IDENTICAL symptoms ! Every study showed that men'st reported pain score more likely to beloved and they were offered narcotic painkillers in higher doses
I have been asked the questions before. I am legally blind and I do use a power chair. These questions are usually asked if I am experiencing a medical episode but the doctors aren't seeing what they want to see? For example, if I don't have certain symptoms that are in the medical textbook or it is something that they can't see they will ask me those questions such as "Have you been feeling sad or that you want to hurt yourself or anyone else"? They don't always do this but if I am trying to let them know that I believe it is one thing and they don't think that it is what I am saying they will end up asking me those questions. I hope that you do feel better soon Paul? I hope that you filmed and recorded the way this doctor treated you and how this doctor is treating Paul so maybe you can report this doctor to the board? This is not cool and I hope that the paramedics will get written up for how they treated you?
Today I went to a new Rhumetologist, I absolutely love her but omg she took 15 vials of blood for test and I got stuck 4 times. Feel better Paul. Hopefully you go home soon.
I hope you get better! Whenever I go to the ER now I will take a bag of stuff in case I get admitted. I have been to the hospital so much that I know what I want in need if I get stuck there. Lol.
I had to call an ambulance the other week because I had really bad breathing difficulties and hadn't been able to breath properly for 2.5 hours and when they came I told them I had asthma and had tried my inhaler multiple times and they turned round and said its nothing probably just your anxiety even though I was calm and not anxious at all because I knew what was happening and how I needed to say and do I just needed help at 4am when I called them they literally said to me and I quote "its nothing,get a covid test and go to bed" the guy also argued with my mum because my whole house is isolating because mum has crohns so we are doing all we can to keep her safe so I hadn't left the house in like 5 weeks it just got me very annoyed that they said it was my anxiety and depression causing it
I’m so glad your making this public. Being a male and ESPECIALLY being white you get like royalty treatment compared to women. Even more so women of color. It’s horrific and more people need to go public with it so it will hopefully change
SERIOUSLY?!?! Hospital staffs keep questioning ur mental health while overlooking the real illness?! They keep doing that all the time? I would consider potential litigation for repeating bully or disrespectful behavior at healthcare! Loads of prayers for both of you for a permanently peaceful solution to ongoing hostile with staffs.
So sorry you are in the hospital again, this time with a "crying arm"….ha! I checked out your baby registry. I am glad you set one up this soon on, as with the first baby you need all the help you can get because you need a LOT!!! This will give your fans ( like me) time to help you out as I'm sure all of us would love to. After all, you cannot go out shopping without taking a risk of Covid. Get better soon! This is a time you should both be feeling HAPPY and BLESSED!!!!
Yes, get well Paul! Almost every time I'm in the hospital, they put the thing on my legs, and altho it feels good, it is annoying because it's harder to get up and go to the hospital. And that is so wrong that they are treating you differently. As far as the vein I had an iv in my forearm and I was on very strong antibiotic and it blew and they had to put some kind of shots in my arm or they said it would have been very bad. That was kinda scary.
I know how they treat women once I reached the age of 30 I never heard that anxiety depression crap again.,BUT they still are STUPID about POTS EDS and all that.
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My experience is that it depends more on what disease you have. When I have to be hospitalized for my Lyme, fibromialgia, I've indeed had the experience that much is questioned. However, when I am admitted for ulcerative colitis, I am approached as it should be.
Yep medicine has a long and documented anti-female bias.
I have a overnight bag 😮 , and sevral cronic illnesses
I know there have been many studies based on gender..treatments ..pain relief and tests ordered in the ER when presenting with IDENTICAL symptoms ! Every study showed that men'st reported pain score more likely to beloved and they were offered narcotic painkillers in higher doses
Sexism hahaha u spoiled assumptious illness fakers
Maybe those other got called back first because ….wait for it….they were more important/dire than you? 🤭
I have been asked the questions before. I am legally blind and I do use a power chair. These questions are usually asked if I am experiencing a medical episode but the doctors aren't seeing what they want to see? For example, if I don't have certain symptoms that are in the medical textbook or it is something that they can't see they will ask me those questions such as "Have you been feeling sad or that you want to hurt yourself or anyone else"? They don't always do this but if I am trying to let them know that I believe it is one thing and they don't think that it is what I am saying they will end up asking me those questions. I hope that you do feel better soon Paul? I hope that you filmed and recorded the way this doctor treated you and how this doctor is treating Paul so maybe you can report this doctor to the board? This is not cool and I hope that the paramedics will get written up for how they treated you?
I've had the thing with the arm happen to me, it's just the saline solution going into your arm you'll absorb all of it
Your arm has phlebitis. Warm compresses to dissipate the fluid in the tissues. It will get smaller.
Paul I hope you feel better soon.
Today I went to a new Rhumetologist, I absolutely love her but omg she took 15 vials of blood for test and I got stuck 4 times. Feel better Paul. Hopefully you go home soon.
For people who want invisible illnesses recognized you sure jumped to judge the patients who got called back before you. Pathetic hypocrites.
I hope you get better!
Whenever I go to the ER now I will take a bag of stuff in case I get admitted. I have been to the hospital so much that I know what I want in need if I get stuck there. Lol.
Yes I hate those things that they put on your legs. There for blood clots
Paul's arm story just made me think of popeye 🤣 one arm bulging 🤣 glad he's doing okay and that he's getting great care though! 💚💚💚
love to see crying elbows xD but i love how you guys keep moving forward with with all the struggles
I had to call an ambulance the other week because I had really bad breathing difficulties and hadn't been able to breath properly for 2.5 hours and when they came I told them I had asthma and had tried my inhaler multiple times and they turned round and said its nothing probably just your anxiety even though I was calm and not anxious at all because I knew what was happening and how I needed to say and do I just needed help at 4am when I called them they literally said to me and I quote "its nothing,get a covid test and go to bed" the guy also argued with my mum because my whole house is isolating because mum has crohns so we are doing all we can to keep her safe so I hadn't left the house in like 5 weeks it just got me very annoyed that they said it was my anxiety and depression causing it
I went to an appt yesterday and treated like crap.
I’m so glad your making this public. Being a male and ESPECIALLY being white you get like royalty treatment compared to women. Even more so women of color. It’s horrific and more people need to go public with it so it will hopefully change
Hope you feel better soon. It pays to be a man. Women get demeaned no matter if you have your records showing you are seriously ill or not
SERIOUSLY?!?! Hospital staffs keep questioning ur mental health while overlooking the real illness?! They keep doing that all the time? I would consider potential litigation for repeating bully or disrespectful behavior at healthcare! Loads of prayers for both of you for a permanently peaceful solution to ongoing hostile with staffs.
I love you guys! That arm story was hilarious. I would have freaked out so bad!!
Get well Paul and sending healing hugs to the both of you 🤗
I hope there are no more problems with sexism. I really wish that would stop altogether. I hope Paul is better soon.
You guys need to add a little 🍣 to your intro!!
So sorry you are in the hospital again, this time with a "crying arm"….ha! I checked out your baby registry. I am glad you set one up this soon on, as with the first baby you need all the help you can get because you need a LOT!!! This will give your fans ( like me) time to help you out as I'm sure all of us would love to. After all, you cannot go out shopping without taking a risk of Covid. Get better soon! This is a time you should both be feeling HAPPY and BLESSED!!!!
Get well soon paul
Yes I do
Aww hope you both are doing ok
In the hospital I work in, we don’t allow any visitors at the moment unless it is for end of life 😢 I live in the UK though
Get well soon Paul. prayers your way. Your baby sushi is waiting to see you both stay safe. Loving all your YouTube channel.
I get asked a lot about mental issues. Its a woman thing I believe
Yes, get well Paul! Almost every time I'm in the hospital, they put the thing on my legs, and altho it feels good, it is annoying because it's harder to get up and go to the hospital. And that is so wrong that they are treating you differently. As far as the vein I had an iv in my forearm and I was on very strong antibiotic and it blew and they had to put some kind of shots in my arm or they said it would have been very bad. That was kinda scary.
Get well soon Paul! Perhaps you should both be treated for cdif so you don’t pass it back and forth. Be safe and take care!
I know how they treat women once I reached the age of 30 I never heard that anxiety depression crap again.,BUT they still are STUPID about POTS EDS and all that.
I hope you Feel better dude
Aw Paul get well soon big hugs😊❤💯🇬🇧
You're lucky you get a visitor or two. Here you can't have anyone.
I’ve had that arm problem also in the hospital arm filled
Hope your both on treatment for Cdiff. If not you may continue to pass it back and forth.
That’s called an infiltrated IV. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Poor Paul.